Worst situation?? Pls everyone help me pls?

You are being treated well at work and this could be jeopardized by breaking up or being caught with some one else - right ? You must be attractive or giving off signals to have so many offers. But eight years and a baby is something in itself. Have you just asked him to talk about the future in short terms. Are you ever going to marry me ? Is your work at the firm good enough that they would keep you on if you left or could you find another law firm? If you really want to speak to that guy right now then why not do so if you can do it without your live in finding out. Apparently you can do that now. So see why the other guy is interested in you and be sure he knows your situation - that you have a baby with James. Which by the way what last name does he use and what will he be if he grows up with split names ? If you are just wanting to try another man for then be careful. After all one way to look at this is that James is doing the same thing - right? You have the responsibility of the child and your future. As an attorney you should know to keep your own money separate and away from legal claims. Be safe, good luck. Be careful.